Falling In Love All Over Again   guest articles    falling in love again date night date ideas    Unveiled Wife

This unique guest article is a great resource to encourage you with “Date Night!”  Falling in love all over again with your spouse is not always an easy thing to do, but it is necessary for marriages to thrive.  I hope that this article blesses you and reveals to you not only the importance of Date Night, but how to have a successful Date Night! Becky Cox has written this phenomenal article!  If you have any other suggestions please feel free to add them in the comments. Enjoy!

Becky writes:

1 Corinthians 7: 7 “But I wish everyone were single, just as I am. Yet each person has a special gift from God, of one kind or another.” (NLT)

               Marriage is a sweet gift from God that can be celebrated often by dating your spouse even after courtship. Read Full Article

Are You More Like His Mother than His Lover?   popular posts guest articles    married life marital intimacy Christian wives christian husbands    Unveiled Wife

Jolene Engle is one of the first bloggers I have met face to face.  She is sweet, compassionate, and a strong woman of God.  Today I have the honor of featuring her as a guest!  She has brought a great topic to discuss, challenging us wives whether we treat our husbands like his mother or his lover.  If this is something you struggle with please share in the comments below!

Jolene writes:

The need to control. That’s what we do as wives.

It’s our flesh seeping out and if we can’t get it under control, then our marital oneness will start to erode.

“And you will desire to control your husband, but he will rule over you.” Genesis 3:16 (NLT)

Here’s what mothering our men looks like:

We tell him he doesn’t know how to parent, how to handle finances, how to lead the family, or even how to buy groceries! Don’t believe me on this? Take a look around at our society and you’ll see how we’re being conditioned by the world as they tell us that men are a bunch of idiots, completely incompetent to handle even the smallest tasks.

Can you just let things go and enjoy the man you married? Read Full Article

How I Am Helping My Husband   guest articles    temptation prayer husband grace    Unveiled WifeToday’s guest article is one of conviction and encouragement for wives.  As I read it I immediately felt God tug on my heart pertaining to this area in marriage.  Jennifer Schwickerath writes today with a revelation on how she is helping her husband, a lesson we can all learn from.  Enjoy!

Jennifer writes:

Six years ago, my husband had confessed to having looked at images online. I was devastated, but we overcame that obstacle. Soon after we celebrated our ten year anniversary, we were reading a book together when he told me that he had clicked on an icon to look at an actress. I was crushed. I thought my world was crashing down on me again. I forgave him for this and he had overcame this.

Why did this happen again and how was I going to pray for him when I felt betrayed? Read Full Article

Our Words Are Powerful In Marriage   guest articles    words Power marriage    Unveiled Wife

Our words are powerful; with them we can build our husbands up or tear them down.  Guest author Adrienne Servis shares her heart on the power of our words as wives.  She exposes the truth found in scripture about the power God gives us to speak life and change in our marriages.  Please share in the comments how your words affect your marriage, whether negatively or positively.  Also, let Adrienne know how she encouraged you today to be cautious with your words.

Adrienne writes:

When we think of a fire, we think very hot, able to burn, destroys.  The Bible says our tongue is like that.

Proverbs 18:21 states,

 “Death and life are in the power of the tongue, and those who love it will eat its fruit.” Read Full Article

Apathy In Marriage   The Pain Of Losing My Husbands Affection   popular posts guest articles    sacrifice Rejection Commitment Apathy affection    Unveiled Wife

Apathy in marriage is a silent killer of relationship.  It tears couples apart and damages the affection once held in high esteem.  Jennifer Roos is a guest today sharing how apathy affected her marriage and the pain she experienced of losing her husband’s affection.  If you can relate in any way or find encouragement through this article please share in the comments below.

Jennifer writes:

I rolled over toward the wall and pulled my knees up to my chest. I shut my eyes tightly, forcing the tears back in. The room was dark and I felt defeated by an invisible enemy called apathy. It had crept into our marriage, unanticipated and unnoticed, secretly hypnotizing us and eroding our love for each other. Entranced by our obscure opponent, we had become emotional strangers.

Why hadn’t we been on guard? Read Full Article

Our Lovestory   A Husband & Wifes Journey Of Adoption    guest articles    working together lovestory jewerly fundraise blended family adoption    Unveiled Wife

My husband and I were recently invited to an art show; we both love art and photography, so we were excited to see different works by a handful of local artists.  As different pieces of colorful compositions caught our eyes, there was one booth that seemed to stand out.  On an adorable table setting sat small boxes of homemade button earrings with a small tag that said, “Thank you for your purchase from my shop and supporting our adoption journey! – Love Danielle”  My heart melted as I realized that this was no ordinary couple selling their art.  I had to ask about their journey!  I found out that Danielle and her husband Kyle were preparing to journey to Africa for an adoption process!  How exciting!  And I love that Danielle and Kyle were working together to raise funds for the adoption!  I immediately felt the Holy Spirit ask me to offer Danielle an opportunity to share their lovestory with the Unveiled Wife Community in hopes of inspiring those of you who are contemplating adoption or have been through the process.  I also wanted to give you the opportunity to support this family in their journey of adoption!  Danielle wrote out a glimpse of their lovestory and below that are ways that you can support them!  

Here are a picture of the earrings I bought and a photo of Danielle and I!

Our Lovestory   A Husband & Wifes Journey Of Adoption    guest articles    working together lovestory jewerly fundraise blended family adoption    Unveiled Wife

Our Lovestory   A Husband & Wifes Journey Of Adoption    guest articles    working together lovestory jewerly fundraise blended family adoption    Unveiled Wife

Danielle writes:

 

“Behold, I am doing a new thing;

now it springs forth, do you not perceive it?

I will make a way in the wilderness

and rivers in the desert.” Isaiah 43:19

I am blessed to be married to an incredible man of God for more than five years now and lately God has pushed us to new levels of faith that we never dreamed of.

This is our “Lovestory”. Read Full Article

Are We Using The Gifts God Gives Us?   guest articles    talents Growth Gifts Evangelism Christianity Breakthrough    Unveiled Wife

Rachel Atchley is our guest today, encouraging all of us to use the gifts God gives us.  Each one of us has been made with purpose and have been equipped to fulfill our purpose.  Sometimes life can be so fast-paced that we may have a tendency to stop using the gifts that God gives us.  Gifts that were meant to bless God, bless us, and bless others.  I hope that you receive the same motivation as I did after reading this article to seek out and become aware of your special gifts… and then use them!  Enjoy!

Rachel writes: 

It’s like you are in a desert—dry sand in your mouth, howling winds kicking it up to the sky, so you can’t even see a mirage in the distance. This has been my most recent experience, spiritually. I think everyone runs into this season during their relationship with God. You’re pretty sure you are “okay” with Him, so you focus your attention on other areas of your life. Read Full Article

Redeeming Love   guest articles    special needs children second chances divorce    Unveiled Wife

It is my honor to introduce to you today’s guest blogger, the beautiful, the encouraging, the lovely Rachel Wojnarowski!  I look up to Rachel, and I admire her perseverance.  As much as she dedicates time for her husband and children, she also manages to maintain her blog where she shares her encouraging voice, inspiring her readers to live with extraordinary faith.  Today she is revealing her heart on marriage and the gift of second chances.  I highly recommend that you continue to follow Rachel through her personal page or connect with her through Twitter!  Enjoy!

Rachel writes:

I’ve never heard of princess dreams that consist of the knight in shining armor chasing after another.  Perhaps they exist,

Only in the form of nightmares.

I grew up in a Christian home, graduated from Christian school, and completed the circle by graduating from Christian college and teaching in a Christian school.   Surely with so much Bible knowledge, surely with such great parental examples, the odds of divorce would be the lowest possible.  Read Full Article

When Christ Is Your Only Common Ground   guest articles    Vulnerability Security mission work love Commitment Calling    Unveiled Wife

This guest post was a blessing to me from the moment I received it.  Jennifer Roos, the author of this article, shares about how she met her husband as she was passionately pursing God as a missionary.  Her story resonates with me because my husband and I both served in a few African countries and Central American countries when we served together as missionaries.  She explains how God brought them together and how Christ is the foundation for their marriage!  Enjoy!

Jennifer writes:

He stood in the doorway with one hand in his pocket. He brushed his blonde hair away from his face and peered directly at me.  His reassuring confidence grasped my attention. I wanted to fall into it and experience security. I knew nothing about this stranger and yet his eyes sunk into my soul and beckoned my deepest secrets to come forth. His young, handsome face displayed a manner of perception that I had not seen before. Who was he and why was I so drawn to him?

Growing up, I lived a cushioned life. I had everything I needed. A native of New York, raised by a police officer and taught to hold fast to the securities this world has to offer; become educated, secure a career, plan for a financially comfortable future, marry, buy a home, have children and, somewhere in this rigid structure, plan for a little fun.

My mind was trained to experience the ordinary. Read Full Article

Dear God, Should I Divorce My Husband?   guest articles    trusting God Gods will divorce bickering    Unveiled Wife

Divorce seems to be an accepted solution to many unhappy marriages across the globe.  Unfortunately, many of those who do divorce are disillusioned and suffer a horrible separation from their spouse.  I am so excited to share this story of one wife’s conversation with God about divorce and the answer that saved her marriage.  I think the majority of wives and husbands reach a point in their marriage where they ask, “Should I divorce?”  I know I have been there.  Hopefully, those of you who are still contemplating this question will receive the same answer and peace from God as guest writer Alba did.

Alba writes:

I have been married over 20 years.  I truly believed I was totally in God’s will by marrying my husband. We loved each other and we loved the Lord.  I thought we had a wonderful marriage because for about 15-16 years things went smoothly.  We had disagreements and arguments, but it was nothing we didn’t work out.  We have two wonderful sons who have been raised to love the Lord, go to church, and serve God.  I thought things would remain status quo and I was not expecting what we were about to face.

Our marriage got tested (as I have learned, all marriages do at some point) and I got scared. Read Full Article