Femininity is a gift God has designed women with that contrasts the design of men. There are differences in gender that are very distinct and those differences play a role in marriage.
I grew up with a twin brother as well as a rough-edged family environment. We played outside all of the time, we camped, fished, and enjoyed getting dirty. I was a “Tom-Boy” – embracing a tough side that had nothing to do with make-up, accessories, or other girly things.
Now that I am a wife, I realize that my husband delights in my femininity. When I take the time to present myself in a beautifully delicate way he feels honored to be my husband. This does not mean that the days I neglect my appearance he loves me any less… rather my ability to embrace femininity shows him that I respect our differences as husband and wife, male and female.
I am learning that there are certain ways I can embrace my femininity, such as closing the bathroom door when I go to the bathroom, having self-control with my bodily functions, and try a little more with my physical appearance… even it I am just going to be hanging out with my husband!
What are some ways you will try to embrace your femininity this week?
It is dangerous to compare you marriage to other marriages. It can lead to a discontent heart and arouse feelings and responses towards your husband that are not motivated my love.
