Category: Fights & Disagreements In Marriage

  • Does It Hurt Your Marriage To Go To Bed Angry?

    Does It Hurt Your Marriage To Go To Bed Angry?

    I jumped online to chat with the Unveiled Wife Facebook community, inviting people to say hi or ask a question. I was hoping for a little chat. As more people began to hop on and share their hearts, I saw a reoccurring question: Does it hurt your marriage to go to bed angry? When I read that…

  • What Is Escapism? And Is It Destroying Your Marriage?

    What Is Escapism? And Is It Destroying Your Marriage?

    Escapism is defined by Google, as the tendency to seek distraction and relief from unpleasant realities, especially by seeking entertainment or engaging in fantasy. I did this. The reality of my marriage was one that I didn’t like and didn’t want to accept. By our third year of marriage, I was ready to escape any…

  • Forgive Him. Even If He Is Not Sorry.

    Forgive Him. Even If He Is Not Sorry.

    Marriage is hard. Although a husband and wife love each other, there are  conflicts that arise and offenses that hurt. Without apology and forgiveness, marriages would not be happy nor thriving. What happens when your spouse does not want to apologize? What happens when you don’t want to forgive? I want to encourage you today.…

  • I Wish I Had A Reset Button For Marriage

    I Wish I Had A Reset Button For Marriage

    My husband pointed out that it often times seems difficult for me to embrace him after we have had an argument or disagreement. In my mind I thought, “Yeah that’s true.” But I don’t know why that is true of me and I don’t want to hurt him. Sometimes I just shut down. Not knowing…

  • Do You Have This Characteristic Of God?

    Do You Have This Characteristic Of God?

    Psalm 86. Before I go on, would you take a minute to open up your Bible and read Psalm 86 or click HERE to read it? There it was…one line that stood out boldly from the rest. Verse 5. For You, Lord, are good, and ready to forgive…“ David penned that God is ready to…

  • The Most Important Phrase I Say Toward My Husband

    The Most Important Phrase I Say Toward My Husband

    My husband and I agreed years ago that we would say “I forgive you” when attempting to reconcile in marriage. I use to use phrases such as: It’s fine.      Okay.            Sure.                  Whatever. Okay being one of the most used of…