Category: Sex & Intimacy In Marriage

Sex and intimacy are key elements of marriage and they are topics that proved to be the greatest hardships in my marriage. I am still learning the importance of sex and intimacy, and I feel there are many other wives like me who need more knowledge and encouragement in this area of marital oneness. I hope that our Christian culture will make it easier to talk about sex and intimacy so that others are aware of its relevance in marriage.

Prayer: The Plight Of Pornography

Dear Heavenly Father, I lift marriages up to You. I pray especially over husbands and wives who struggle with an addiction to pornography. Lord, I pray that You would reveal to them how dangerous this stronghold is. I pray that You would break the bondage of pornography in marriages in Jesus’ Name! May You give husbands and wives the strength to overcome this temptation. Please send people to encourage them and keep them accountable not to sin. Lord, please reveal Yourself in very personal ways to those people involved in the pornography industry. Turn their hearts to You, O Lord!  Please cover marriages and please help heal marriages that are struggling with this issue in Jesus’ Name AMEN!

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What We Watch Together Matters

The other night my husband and I were cuddling in bed together. He had his laptop out and I asked if we could watch a show or a movie together. We started a new episode of a T.V. series we had recently started. Within the first few seconds a sexually explicit scene came on. My husband responded quickly to turn it off. I was bummed. I knew it was inappropriate for us to continue watching, but there was a part of me that wanted to be able to still watch the show. So I asked my husband, Can’t we just skip past that part?” My husband looked over at me and said with conviction, It isn’t pure.” He reminded of the scripture in Philippians 4:8,

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How I Loved My Husband When He Was Addicted To Porn

My husband was addicted to pornography well before we were married. He had mentioned to me his struggle with it while we were dating, and although I was frustrated with him over this issue, we were both convinced it wouldn’t be a struggle once we were married. Marriage did not fix his porn problem. There were many times my husband told me that he had slipped up and viewed pornography. Each time came with a humble apology and a desire to reconcile. He didn’t want this to be an issue anymore. I went through different and many emotions every time he told me, and my responses were always motivated by them, matching the intensity to which I felt them.  I have wept, I have yelled,

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My Interview With My Husband About Sex!

A while back I had a contributor on my blog who shared an interview she had with her husband on sex. This article still gets a ton of traffic. This topic seemed to resonate with many people, so I felt inspired to conduct my own interview with my husband about sex to see how he would answer these questions. For this interview I used some of the same questions used in the article I mentioned before, which you can read HERE: An Interview With My Husband On Sex: His Answers Will Surprise You. I also went ahead and added some of my own questions to my interview. I want to encourage you to experience this kind of interview with your husband! It is so interesting to

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9 Themed Date Nights: The Fruit Of The Spirit

But the fruit of the Spirit is love, joy, peace, patience, kindness, goodness, faithfulness, gentleness, self-control; against such things there is no law.” – Galatians 5:22-23 The fruit of the Spirit comes up often in our home. Not only do my husband and I desire to grow in these awesome characteristics, we are also teaching them to our young children. As my husband and I were chatting about these characteristics the other day, and throwing around ideas to celebrate Valentine’s Day, we came up with a fun list of themed date nights that will reflect the fruit of the Spirit! I listed our ideas for you and included a few conversation questions you and your spouse can use to talk about that specific fruit on your

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How One Woman Found Healing From Painful Sex…

I recently received a powerful testimony from a woman who found healing from painful sex. Please read her testimony and then I will explain a little more: (She asked to remain anonymous) I married my high school sweetheart at age 19. We were both virgins and when our wedding night came, I expected magic. Instead I felt pain and disappointment. I didn’t expect sex to hurt so bad. I figured we were rookies and eventually pain during intercourse would go away. It didn’t. Years went by. I lost count of how many gynecologist I saw; none of them having answers. My husband was always patient, kind and gentle but it still ate away at me. I thought making love with my husband was supposed to be beautiful,

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